


For most of my life, Christmas was my favorite season. During Advent and Christmas, I rarely have existential doubts. We are all familiar with the expectations surrounding Christmas: being in the bosom of a loving family, listening to nostalgia-invoking carols in front of the out- of-Norman-Rockwell-fireplace, eating family cherished recipes together midst laughter and high spirits. I even loved the commercialism. And God bless the real Santa Claus. The thing about Christmas -- it heightens public joys and private woes. When the woes clamor more loudly than the joys, one wants to lean against the fragrantly wreathed door shouting “Bah hum bug!” Get out. For most of my life, Halloween was underrated. I no longer fear the demons behind every bush. That’s what the Jack O’ Lanterns are for -- to scare away those party poopers. Halloween is a pregnant holiday. Yes, it is full of the anticipation of the long winter with all it brings. There will be the forever new scents of the Thanksgiving and Christmas food ahead. Most folks can fit in at least one seasonal concert, even if it is simply enjoying it on television. Halloween is not so packed with baggage. When I was a pastor, family members of the congregation did light candles in honor of loved ones who had departed in the last year, in church, on the Sunday nearest November first. The altar was always covered with flowers. There were tea lights that anyone could come forward and set alight in honor of any departed dear folks from any era. By the end of that segment of the service, the front of the church would gleam with brightness and warmth. Halloween Day and Evening, after the candy coveting goblins have left, can be designated for reading mildly frightening ghost stories, “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow” and such. One can hope that there is some candy left over. In recent years, I have felt closer to my late parents, grandparents, sister-in-law and friends on Halloween. I don’t think it is gloominess on my part. It is a new statistic that Halloween is the next most decorated holiday after Christmas. Every society needs to honor its dead. Even though All Hallows Eve has been domesticated into a kids’ holiday, it is obvious that many feel this need. I feel a comfort of resting in the arms of the Dark Goddess on that day. The veil is thinner on Halloween. |
| My Favorite Season by Jean Larson |
| Don’t Forget to Remember by S.K. Hamilton |
| Memories of Summer By Gloria Persinger |




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